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𝗦𝗟𝗢𝗪 𝗦𝗘𝗫 𝗦𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗜𝗔𝗟: 𝗙𝗔𝗡𝗧𝗔𝗦𝗬 𝗔𝗦 𝗔 𝗣𝗔𝗧𝗛 𝗧𝗢 𝗪𝗛𝗢𝗟𝗘𝗡𝗘𝗦𝗦
A One-Time Sunday Special @ Kokopelli, Amsterdam
Including a Free Flowing Practice Space and optional, intentional microdosing.

Please take your time to read the full description below—to manage your expectations and arrive prepared.

✦ 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗦𝗔𝗧𝗨𝗥𝗗𝗔𝗬 (𝗦𝗨𝗡𝗗𝗔𝗬!) 𝗦𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗜𝗔𝗟𝗦
Rituals for the Brave. Explorations for the Bold.
While our Specials usually happen on Saturdays, this one-time edition takes place on a Sunday afternoon—a rare opportunity to spend your Sunday in ritual, deep connection, and inner transformation. These immersive sessions are sacred spaces for advanced practitioners ready to meet themselves more fully and co-create a new culture of intimacy and embodied presence.

🌹 𝗦𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗜𝗔𝗟 𝗪𝗜𝗧𝗛 𝗞𝗔𝗧𝗝𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗦𝗔
FANTASY AS A PATH TO WHOLENESS
Using Sexual Fantasies to Reclaim Disowned Parts & Become More Whole, Real, and Alive
What if your sexual fantasies weren’t distractions… but portals?
In this deep-dive ritual session, we’ll explore how your fantasies—yes, even the strange, shamey, or edgy ones—carry intelligence. They’re not mistakes or indulgences. They are maps to the parts of you waiting to be felt, understood, and integrated.
This Special combines the erotic with the therapeutic, the mystical with the grounded. Expect a night of powerful facilitation, gentle nervous system practices, relational experiments, and an invitation to let your shadow speak—and be met.

✦ 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗦𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗜𝗔𝗟 𝗧𝗛𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗗
As Katjalisa, founder & thought leader of the Slow Sex Movement, is writing her upcoming book on sexual fantasy as a therapeutic portal, she is bringing that living research directly into our Saturday Specials. What we explore together isn’t theory—it’s alive, evolving, and deeply embodied.
You’ll learn how to:
Meet the hidden, electric, and exiled parts of yourself
Explore sexual fantasy not to act out—but to listen in
Reclaim your erotic intelligence, emotional sovereignty, and self-trust
Move from repression or performance into clarity, choice, and connection

✦ 𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗖𝗢𝗥𝗘 𝗧𝗢𝗢𝗟: 𝗩𝗢𝗜𝗖𝗘 𝗗𝗜𝗔𝗟𝗢𝗚𝗨𝗘
At the heart of this Special is Voice Dialogue—a profound and playful modality that helps you connect with your inner parts and speak from them directly. This isn’t therapy. This is conscious embodiment of the self in all its multiplicity.
You’ll learn to:
Name your Primary Selves and explore your Disowned Parts
Let these energies move, speak, breathe—without shame
Witness how they impact your intimacy, your body, your presence
Step into intelligent erotic expression rooted in consent, curiosity, and care
Expect live demos, somatic practice, partner explorations, and open space for integration.

✦ 𝗔𝗧𝗠𝗢𝗦𝗣𝗛𝗘𝗥𝗘 & 𝗖𝗘𝗥𝗘𝗠𝗢𝗡𝗬
To deepen the field, we’ll begin with a ritual dose of Mattie’s ceremonial chocolate—crafted for inner openness, softening resistance, and grounding in the body.

✦ 𝗪𝗛𝗢 𝗜𝗧’𝗦 𝗙𝗢𝗥
This Special is open to all genders, bodies, and identities — but it’s designed for advanced practitioners with a finely tuned capacity for inner work and relational presence.
Ideal for those who bring:
— Experience in parts work, conscious sexuality, authentic relating, or somatic/trauma-informed practices
— A strong capacity for self-awareness and self-reflection
— Clear boundary awareness and the ability to honor others’ boundaries without assumption or override
— The ability to communicate non-violently, even in moments of activation or emotional intensity
— An understanding of energetic responsibility — how your presence shapes the field
If you’ve attended our Thursday Slow Sex Practice, you’re especially well-prepared — this Special builds on the foundational skills cultivated there and takes them deeper into shadow, fantasy, and integration.
This is not a conventional sexual space. While clothes may come off, underpants stay on — no genital exposure.
What makes this space unconventional is the weaving of sexual exploration with deep personal development.
We work with voice, fantasy, movement, energy, breath, and awareness — not to perform or “achieve” something, but to meet what’s real, alive, and ready to be integrated.
This is a space for those who can hold their own experience and contribute to a field of trust, care, and courage.

✦ 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗙𝗟𝗢𝗪
Guided arrival + body-based meditation
Breath and movement practices for regulation and presence
Relational exercises: boundaries, parts awareness, consent
Voice Dialogue facilitation & live demo
Erotic fantasy as portal: embodied parts expression (solo + partner work)
Open jam space: safe, supported, and trauma-informed
Integration circle + ceremonial closure

✦ 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗘 𝗔𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗔𝗥𝗘. 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗠𝗢𝗥𝗘 𝗪𝗛𝗢𝗟𝗘.
Whether you’re longing to meet your inner flirt, your wild one, your sacred slut, your tender romantic—or simply reconnect to you—this is your invitation.
Let’s create a new culture of relating—together.

✨ 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗦𝗟𝗢𝗪 𝗦𝗘𝗫 𝗠𝗢𝗩𝗘𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧
The Slow Sex Movement is more than a practice—for us, it’s a lifestyle, an art form, and even a form of activism that deeply connects us to ourselves, each other and nature, thus ending separation. For more info, visit: https://slowsex.me/
More about your facilitator Katjalisa: https://slowsex.me/katjalisa/

You will receive more information about microdosing in the welcome email you receive after booking. 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘱𝘥𝘧 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦-𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘏𝘪𝘱𝘴𝘺!

✨ 𝗙𝗔𝗤:
– 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙨 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙚𝙙? — Yes! Every Slow Sex facilitator is personally trained by Katjalisa, co-founder of the Slow Sex movement, and participates in a continuous mentorship program. This program focuses on trauma-information, mirroring blind spots, working with disowned parts, and holding each other accountable to serve the collective with integrity and care. To learn more about our values and how we take care, please read about our community care:
https://slowsex.me/community-care/
– 𝙄𝙨 𝙞𝙩 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙚𝙭𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣? — YES, absolutely!
– 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙣𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙙? — Unless stated differently, we have a ‘underwear on’ policy during all events. There won’t be any genital penetration happening at any point of the evening.
– 𝘿𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙎𝙚𝙭 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙫𝙤𝙡𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠? — Slow Sex is a healing space. Even though our intention is not to actively dive into trauma work, some exercises might trigger past traumatic experiences. We ask you to get in touch with our team beforehand if you are aware of sexual traumas.
– 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚? — You can totally come alone. If you come as a couple please discuss beforehand if you are open to share experiences with others and clarify the boundaries within your relationship.
– 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧? — Yes.
– 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧? Potentially, we invite you to explore beyond your gender preference and meet each other as beings to connect from heart to heart and go beyond initial preferences.
– 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙖𝙙 𝙤𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙? — Yes, please come as you are—grumpy, unsocial, totally unsexy, the Slow Sex Practice can help you to reconnect to yourself and shift your energy.
– 𝙄𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙘𝙤𝙙𝙚? — No, you’re welcome to wear sexy clothes or show up in your pajamas. Most importantly, you should feel comfortable.
– 𝙎𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙄 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚? — Showering beforehand is appreciated. If you sweat a lot, bring a small towel. Please, avoid strong perfumes or deodorants.
– 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙖𝙩 𝙎𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙎𝙚𝙭? — The Slow Sex Practice isn’t a ‘pick up’ place.
It’s about connecting with an open heart without specific intentions or goals. However, if you had a special moment with someone and want to meet up or just express gratitude—go ahead!
– 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙥𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙧 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤𝙨 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙣? — No, the Slow Sex Practice is a phone-and picture-free space.
– 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚 (𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚) 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚? — Yes, you’ll receive a welcome email with event details after your registration from Hipsy with a pdf included, and a follow-up email with care instructions afterward. Your email address will be public in the aftercare email, unless you wish to to stay incognito. Please tell us.
– 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙟𝙤𝙞𝙣, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙪𝙩? — We offer three ticket options (Community, Standard, and Supporter) to make the practice accessible. In addition, each practice has one Helper spot available. As a Helper, you join for free in exchange for supporting the space (helping set up, making tea, etc.). Sometimes you will also participate in the practice, depending on group numbers. Reach out to join as a Helper to hello@slowsex.me
To apply as a Helper, we ask that you have joined at least one practice before, so you are familiar with the practice and structure.
– 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙧? — No, sorry, latecomers cannot join unless they have arranged it with the facilitator in advance and the group is informed.

✨ 𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧!
Registration closes 2 hours before. Want to join last-minute? Check in with in Katjalisa +31 6 24555311

𝙒𝙚’𝙧𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙖𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜. 💕

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Please note: All tickets are non-refundable.

𝘜𝘱 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘵
You may transfer your ticket to another date (subject to availability).
To do this, email us at hello@slowsex.me no later than 14 days before the event.

𝘓𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯 𝘵𝘸𝘰 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯𝘵
Your ticket becomes non-transferable.
However, you’re welcome to sell or gift your ticket to someone else.
If you do, please email us their full name and email at hello@slowsex.me so we can welcome them with care.

Thank you for understanding—this helps us maintain the integrity of the space and honour the work that goes into creating it.

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